From Flawed to Flourishing

From a young age, I carried a distorted perception of my own worth and value.

I believed in three powerful lies that became the guiding principles of my life. The lies were, that something was inherently wrong with me, that I wasn’t worthy of love, and that I lacked beauty.

The first lie, that something was wrong with me, took root early on. Childhood experiences and remarks formed the foundation for this belief, leading me to constantly search for faults within myself. This unrelenting self-critique paved the way for the second lie to take hold – the idea that I wasn’t worthy of love. This belief wormed its way into my heart, poisoning my relationships and preventing me from fully experiencing and embracing affection.

The third lie was perhaps the most challenging to overcome. It whispered to me that I wasn’t beautiful – that I fell short of the ideals set by others. I was not “ENOUGH”. Every glance in the mirror seemed to echo this sentiment, concealing my own unique beauty and instilling a sense of inadequacy. This perception not only impacted how I saw myself but also how I presented myself to the world, robbing me of the chance to embrace my individuality and exude confidence.

As a result, these three lies held me captive, shaping my thoughts, influencing my choices, and dictating my interactions. They were my constant companions throughout my university journey, weighing me down and leaving me feeling disconnected from my own identity.

It’s often said that if you don’t define yourself, the world will do it for you. This truth became evident as my experiences confirmed these lies. I ended up in cycles of self-betrayal, surrounded by people who reinforced the belief that I wasn’t worthy and didn’t belong. Toxic relationships and friendships became the norm, each one further diminishing my sense of self-worth.

I found myself shape-shifting into different versions of myself, hoping to gain acceptance and love from others. Leading me down a path of self-neglect, as I consistently compromised my values and needs for the sake of external validation. In doing so, I found myself in a cycle of self-hatred. I convinced myself that I wasn’t cut out for a life beyond my insecurities, believing that I wouldn’t become anything in life.

However, from the depths of darkness and selfloathing, I made a pivotal decision to launch a platform aimed at uplifting others, driven by my own struggles and feelings of inadequacy. The concept was simple yet profound: by offering encouragement to others, I hoped to kindle a spark of self-worth within myself. And so, the genesis of “We Are Becoming” took shape. This initiative is an embodiment of my dedication to inspire and empower women, to become the most confident, vibrant and unique versions of themselves.

The heart of this movement lies in the concept of “becoming” – the transformative process of shedding the shackles of past beliefs and stepping into a brighter, more empowered version of oneself

“We Are Becoming” has grown into a multifaceted platform that encompasses empowering events, inspirational content, and a YouTube channel called “The Becoming Series.” My passion for women’s empowerment became the driving force behind this endeavour. I believe that empowering others creates a ripple effect, and words have the power to inspire, educate, and transform lives.

Speaking has become my vessel for change. Words hold the power
to alter lives, and I aim to use them for creation, inspiration, teaching,
and empowerment.

My adult years have become a canvas for sharing my struggles, from mental health to self-esteem, personal development, and spirituality. My goal is clear: to help others tap into their latent power and potential. My platform serves as a vessel for transformation, fostering a community built on self-love and acceptance.

As I look back on my journey, I offer affirmations as guiding lights for anyone seeking to rewrite their own narrative:

“I am more than enough.” This affirmation dismantles the belief in inherent flaws, acknowledging the innate worth that lies within us all.

“I am worthy.” This counteracts the lie of unworthiness, affirming that every individual is deserving of love, respect, and success.

“I am loved.” This affirmation serves as a reminder that love is not contingent on perfection, but is a fundamental truth that transcends our struggles and imperfections.

These affirmations encapsulate my transformation from a person governed by falsehoods to someone who empowers others to become their most authentic selves. Through these affirmations, we have the power to reshape our stories, rise above the lies we’ve believed, and embark on a journey of becoming – stronger, wiser, and unapologetically ourselves.

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